Hello and welcome back to the car side of the hobby
Definitely agree on the truggy but I am biased as I do love truggies, have tried 1/8 buggies but I just don't like them personally.
I would recommend a hyper ss truggy if your going down that route excellent basher and not bad at racing. Losi 8ight 3.0 truggy looks excellent, got to build mine for a brushless setup.
If you fancy monster truck in 1/8 scale, a savage flux will be good at bashing and general fun.
You mention petrol and badass, well a losi 5T will be the most badass. It is an excellent Largescale rc.
They are imo the best 5th scale straight out of the box. You don't have to go mad on hopups, killswitch, good pipe, better steering servo, sort your diffs and suspension out and it's pretty much done. You probably will crave more power at some point and the losi will easily cope.
With your list of requirements, I would be getting either a truggy or losi 5t and that decision would depend on what scale you really prefer and space to run the rc.