Regarding your first question (concerning what you need to run the Quantum Flux), yes, apart from the truck and transmitter you only need to add a battery and charger (plus batteries for the transmitter of course). I would suggest also buying a decent collection of spares though, as even in an open field you'll inevitably break something.
Regarding whether a Quantum Flux is suitable for a 9 year old I'm sure everyone will have a different perspective on this. Personally I think it's fine. I have a 10 and an 8 year old and both have had fun with it (albeit with some breakages along the way). With a 2S Lipo they are fast, but you can always dial down the top speed using the servo end point dial on the transmitter and dial down the acceleration by changing the ESC settings. With those changes it is really easy to drive and less likely to break if it hits a rock/tree/bunny.
I personally think that the Flux offers better value for money than other brushless trucks (excluding cheap offerings from Banggood and Amazon of course). I decided to go with the Flux because it's much cheaper than buying a brushed car and upgrading it in the future with a new ESC and brushless motor. It's also worth remembering that the Flux comes with universal drive shafts for the front wheels and aluminium hub sets that you don't get with the standard Quantum.
Regarding brushless versus brushed.... there are pros and cons. Brushless lasts longer and is marginally quicker, but the difference in speed is only 10-15% I think. Having a sealed motor is definitely a bonus if you will be driving on gravel or in the wet. For a 9 year old brushless might be overkill if anyway you are dialing back the speed, but if you plan on taking it out yourself I'd say it's worth it. That being said there are plenty of folks out there using brushed motors and still having a great time!
Anyway, those are my thoughts. Look forward to hearing other opinions.