The 1/10 Traxxas Summit is great, expensive but can go fast, slow, lock the diffs and it climbs really well. Just falls down on the lack of realistic looks. A bit ugly.
Maybe look at Axial's Wraith, a lot of fun, it just needs a couple of mods to make it really great. (Alter the gearing, solid bar steering and axle links)
Maybe look at this
http://www.modelsport.co.uk/axial-1-10th-scale-scx10-deadbolt-4wd-rtr/rc-car-products/384883
A great truck for the money and like the wraith, missable too.